REAL - ITY??

You ever believe there are vibrations that pull you towards some things and away from others? Whether it's people or places there are always feelings and intuition that play a hand in it. Humanity is so easy to read. In many case females and males are read in the same light.

Looking at females.. we just want to be loved, accepted and taken care of - its funny the same thing could be said about men. But --- yes there is always a why-----why do we shield ourselves? Why do we protect ourselves from that very thing?? I often wonder what would happen if we all were open and honest about our feelings and emotions.... my guess a lot of heartache would be eliminated....I was sitting at a lounge studying today for my sensation course and there were these 2 girls talking about the men in their life. Funny both wanted to be in a relationship and were in the courting stages. Both wondered if their guys liked them and how to figure them out. How to read their signs and if they were being to pushy or to "attached" as one called it.

I stopped studying at this point just listening and taking notes on their rational...and mind set. They were discussing body language and how the men were talkin to them. It occured to me, what is obvious to a female isnt obvious to a male. What a female knows a male needs to hear and not guess.

However it is the opposite for the female. The slightest gesture, slightest word and even the slightest movement such as a wink is enough to push the girl into thinkin..."Ooohh i think he likes meeee..." There is a game that we as a society play.. like a cat and mouse game. Who's gonna be the mouse and who's gonna be the cat? Who will make the first move? Who will make the first call -- are we all just scared? or do we like the chase? the thrill of being chased.. seduced,persued-- courted?? It is rather interesting how a single word can cause chaos .. ie. I Miss You.. the world miss can have tons of implications. it can cause insecurity in a female.. but it can cause caution in a male.. Studying psychology.. women do overreact in some cases.. they may think there is something there when there really isnt.. or they may act too fast. However men, they become shy and subtle -- its as if they dont want to scare of their "prey". All this leads back to the cat and mouse game... why cant we all just be straightfoward and honest.. if you like someone...SAY IT -- I like you, believe me being rejeccted isnt as bad as self doubt and worrying and becoming frustrated over the situation.

These females were soo worried if they were sexy and attractive to their mates, they were worried if the men found them stimulating and intellectually arousing.... Just ask.. be blunt in that situation. If they are with you.. then its a given factor they find you attractive and appealing..how about you reciprocate.. and tell them.. I LIKE U... stop playing games.. mind games just mess you up.. Speak ur mind and be Blunt

--You like someone.. SAY IT.. dont wait around for them to make a move.. just say it.. i like you.. they willl either like you back.. or say im sorry == at least then you can move on and find another kindred spirit... ay ay ay people....

----- Life is what you make of it.... yyou work hard you will get rewarded ... always remain positive and happy..for someone is falling in love with your smile and your warmth... :)~ Teeee...enjoy life, stop stressssingggg!!! ------

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People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason, you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.!

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant . Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.